onelittlekingdom:

THIS IS NOT TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM

I’ve had a lot of subs use this term in various asks I’ve found in my inbox over the years, and in most of them, fear of being seen as “topping from the bottom” has silenced them from expressing themselves to their dominant in the very collaborative and constructive way that Pip did with me today. This is communication. This is not topping from the bottom. Also, if you happen to see Pip this week, be sure to ask her about her onesie.

JD &

@tooprettytolive

Waiting to see Pip coming into the New Year with Michelle Obama arms. 🤣